7 Questions that every to-be-couple should discuss before exchanging vows

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Before rushing into marriage and all, take five minutes to think about whether it's right or wrong? Are you guys on the same page of life? Unlike movies, one song does not decide your fruitful future. In real life, things don't come as easy but they do make you happy!

Marriage is not about age; but about finding the right person!

Getting married is a big responsibility and there are a ton of things that you should discuss with your potential 'life-partner' beforehand. We're not talking about the mainstream drinking and smoking habits or their fart patterns; but things that have the power to make you or break you.

Before rushing into marriage and all, take five minutes to think about whether it's right or wrong? Are you guys on the same page of life? Unlike movies, one song does not decide your fruitful future. In real life, things don't come as easy but they do make you happy!

Marriage is not about age; but about finding the right person!

Getting married is a big responsibility and there are a ton of things that you should discuss with your potential 'life-partner' beforehand. We're not talking about the mainstream drinking and smoking habits or their fart patterns; but things that have the power to make you or break you.

We have a few suggestions of what to ask your partner before you take that major life-changing step.

Health

Before deciding on whether you want to spend your life with them or not, make sure you know them inside out which also includes their health history- both physical and mental.

Career goals

In the new-age generation, I doubt there are hardly any couples who don't work. However, there will come a time that one person's career might have to take a back seat so that the other person's career might move forward. So, discuss such things pre-hand like what if one of us has to compromise and how do you deal with relocation?

Prenup!

They aren't legal in India, as of now but they might be soon. Marriage laws in India aren't always favorable to both parties. So, there's no harm in setting the boundaries, if things get sore.

Kids

In case you do decide to have kids in the future, do talk about how to do so? People of different faiths often face a dilemma - whose faith does the child follow? Do we shelter him from other faiths or do we let the child figure things out on his own.

Introvert vs Extrovert

It's rare to find someone just like you. Your partner could be a party animal while you might be someone who loves his/her 'alone time'. In such scenarios, it's always a good idea to talk about what you expect and what you're willing to give up.

In short, talk people, talk.

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